If you are a disciplined person, protection from psychic vampires is easy to achieve: just ignore them[phpbay]
Psychic vampires in general are good at pushing the buttons of others, finding and exploiting their weaknesses[phpbay] Most vampires operate on the emotional level, and if they don't find any weaknesses they lose interest and wander away[phpbay] Usually such people are stuck in their own emotional mud, and even if they are trying to be nice, their presence is uncomfortable and irritating[phpbay] The feeling of need that they radiate can be overwhelming[phpbay]
Simply ignoring these persons and letting them play their dramas on their own is generally the best and efficient defense[phpbay] If they find your buttons and enjoy pushing them, you have to become aware of these weaknesses within yourself and change - blaming them or struggling against them doesn't work[phpbay] Focus on following your own path and let them find someone else willing to play their dramas[phpbay]
Sometimes the psychic vampire is a loved one you feel responsible for, and in this case ignoring them is not a good solution[phpbay] The first step is communication; explain to him or her the results of such actions[phpbay] If that doesn't work, you can either go back to maintaining a neutral attitude, or you can force awareness into them by acting as a mirror[phpbay] Acting as a mirror is not pleasant, but it also puts pressure on them - they will either change or avoid you for miles away[phpbay]
The thing to remember is: you can't go wrong with self-discipline for protection[phpbay]
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